well, i'm really gettin bored of lookin @ my blogskin. no gd. muz make more chnages le. *hmm* gonna make a new one. yeah~ so after i finish bloggin, i'll start to make a revolution! =D
today work is borin. yeah~ dun have much to do coz almost all the insurance co are closed on weekends. =( + have to do accountin again (-_-") BORING! well, i tink tis job is borin. *haha* though there might b so many unexpected incidents tt might happen, i dun tink i can stay long. (o.0") *haha* well, maybe i might stay in tis job for quite a long time. *hmm* hard to say~ *haiz* afterall, i dun tink me n dear will b shiftin till 2-3yrs later. =/
sianz~ rain. stop. rain. stop. + sunshine?! *haiz* the weather is really gettin worse. caught abit of the rain (-_-") but i tink i'll b okie. =|
lookin thru some frenz blogs. *hmm* Geok wans to have her teeth done. *hmm* so ex. gum surgery + braces = $10K. *haiz* well, i tink she muz have suffered quite a big blow. =( but she's always wantin to b better, let her make her own decisions. =) she'll always b pretty in my eyes~ *hugz* n found sometin real interestin in Ivan's blog. sometin kinda true.
[[How to strengthen the bond between u and ur gf/bf]]
ANNIVERSARIES
Always celebrate! Whether it's the 1st or the
50th, each year together is a triumph.
APPRECIATION
Let each other know how much you appreciate
each other. You may
already know but hearing it from each other is
always better.
BEST FRIENDS
Be best friends preferably before being boyfriend-
girlfriend. Take time to know each other
so the relationship will be a deep one.
Tell each other about your crushes,
dreams and problems. Make sure he/she is your
best friend before getting engaged. The strong
bond of friendship will help you both survive tough
times.
BOND
make it a point to spend time together often but
leave room for each other.
Also spend time alone w/ each other, so that
at the end of the day you could both
share your experiences.
This way, you stay
interesting with your partner.
CHANGING EACH OTHER
Don't marry an asshole, a jerk or a bitch.
You'll never change each other.
COMPLIMENTS
Always compliment each other. This will prevent
feelings of resentment & thinking that one is being
taken for granted.
DATE
Keep doings things that you both enjoy, do them
together. Make time & continue to date to keep
the romance- look good, smell good to maintain
physical attraction
DIFFERENCES
Celebrate differences. Never force your ideologies
down each other's throat.
Give up trying to turn your partner into you.
Accept differences, appreciate them.
FIGHTS
Fight w/the aim to resolve the issue. Don't outdo
each other. The longer you extend the fight,
The more chances that you'll say
something hurtful that you don't really mean. As
mad as you were w/ your partner, he/she is still
the person who laughs at your jokes
& thinks you're hot.
Hear each other out, don't dig up old issues.
Choose you battles.
Make sure the fight will be worth it & that
something will change in the relationship as a
result of the fight.
FLAWS
Know that the perfect person does not exist.
Know that just as there
are things that you love about him/her, there will be
things that will make you go crazy.
We are only human with our own flaws.
FUN
Have fun together! This means keeping the fun &
spontaneity that was there in the early days. Allow
yourselves to get silly- shower
together, pee w/the door open etc.
Being able to make each other
laugh & see the lighter, crazier, absurd side is the
best way to get through all the differences in
personalities, adjustments in lifestyle & opposing
viewpoints.
GOALS
Make sure you have similar goals. It would be
difficult to keep your
bond intact if your views are complete opposite,
GRUDGES
Quit tabulating grudges. Let it off. Discuss it,
then trash it, don't recycle it.
KEEPING IT HOT
Keep it hot by traveling to diff. places together. A
new setting will do wonders.
Always have skin contact-
be it holding hands,
a massage or just plain leg rubbing.
HONESTY
Don't lie or hide things.
The problem will only get bigger.
KNOW EACH OTHER
Learn each other's interest.
It really keeps the conversation flowing!
HUG
A hug can be far better more intimate than a kiss.
IDENTITY
Don't lose your personality- that's why he/she fell
in love w/you.
Have separate interest & activities to keep your
individual, & to be able to contribute more to the
relationship.
INDEPENDENCE
Having your own income means you're the boss
in your life.
IN-LAWS
Make rooms for the in-laws.
INTENTIONS
Wish each other well.
Don't wish each other worst
ISSUES
Speak up about the awkward stuff now,
like money & sex.
The earlier, the better.
LISTEN
Listen, listen, listen.
Hear each other out
especially during arguments.
LOOK GOOD
Mind your appearance!
Stay fit & healthy
for your spouse.
true eh? *haha* muz master tt. =P anyway the kids r here again. (>_<) muz i really stop usin the com?! i dun wan~ *stomp feet*
anyway gojane items come le~ *wEeEeeeeeEeEe* get to wear sometin new on my bd~! (^_^) n i cant wait for my bd to come. *haha* though it's juz like any other bds, but it's 21th. *hmm* FREEDOM TO MY FUTURE! *haha* anyway i already have enough freedom le~ *haha*
today on my way home, had abit of tots. well, some pplz juz aint behavin the way they spk. *hmm* since they aint behavin, wad for shd we give them respect? *haha* not gonna give face next time~ ;)
okie~ time to go~ make new blog skin le~ (^_^)
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